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Date November 15, 2024
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Clinician Cameo: Family Therapist as Communications Coach

The Clinician Cameo is a regular interview series with a clinician in the Brown Department of Psychiatry & Human Behavior (DPHB).

Jeniimarie Febres, PhD

Jeniimarie Febres, Ph.D., a clinical assistant professor of psychiatry and human behavior, is program director of the Family Therapy Program at Brown University Health. She is also the assistant director of quality and the associate director of psychology with the Adult Psychiatry Program.

In this interview, Febres talks with DPHB about her early years as a research assistant at Butler Hospital, the efficiencies she's discovered in family therapy, and playground-hunting with her own family.

How did you find your way to psychology?

In college at Brown, I gravitated toward sociology, political science, human biology. What was uniting all of those interests was my interest in people. I happened on an abnormal psych class really late in the game, in the spring of my senior year. I thought, “Oh my goodness, this is what I wish I’d been spending more time on.”

You then worked as a research assistant at Butler Hospital. How did that experience confirm your interest?

I worked in Dr. Van Miller’s lab for two years with Dr. [Brandon] Gaudiano, focusing on suicide and social support. That was what reinforced my calling to work with people – I wanted to know more about the role of social support in mental health. Later, when I went to grad school at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville, my mentor was Dr. Greg Stuart, who did research on when social support goes awry in the context of intimate partner violence.

Your research focused on intimate partner violence (IPV). Does that come into play at all in your family therapy work?

I’m not doing IPV research anymore, but I do think there’s a connection. In psychological research, you learn that things are always more complicated than they seem on the surface. With IPV, for example, it can be more bidirectional than we would think; it’s not always as simple as someone being an aggressor or a victim. That’s not to take responsibility away from perpetrators, but rehabilitation requires some understanding of their vulnerabilities, too.

Those lessons continue to be alive with me when I’m sitting with families and trying to get at the nuances of their relationships and the systems they live in. What else is there beyond what is initially presented? That’s how research trained my brain – to continue to ask questions and not take anything for granted.

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Dr. Febres with her husband at Goat Island Lighthouse in Newport, where they married in 2014. The couple moved back to Rhode Island from Tennessee, in part, to be closer to their families.

What makes family therapy unique from individual therapy? 

I do about 70/30 family therapy. One thing about family therapy is that families can be more difficult to get into care. You have to coordinate a number of motivations and schedules.

But once you get them in, I find that family therapy is very efficient. When you’re working with an individual, you have to depend on that person to lead you to the pieces that need to be put together. You’re limited by what they remember, what they find important, their capacity for insight. When there are more players in the room, yes, it can get complicated, but you also have access to more information and more perspectives. Once you wrangle that info, you’re off and running. You have a greater menu of options in guiding the family toward their desired results. In my experience, family therapy is generally quicker than therapy with individuals.

What lessons can other clinicians take from family therapy?

The pandemic revealed the deep ways in which people are feeling disconnected socially. In this epidemic of loneliness, it’s so important for people to be trained in systems. Relationship health is a vital sign. It impacts our overall health in myriad ways. We need to be training folks to think about who a person is outside of their presenting complaints. We need to assess and refer the full person, not just the one slice they’re coming to us for.

“ Relationship health is a vital sign. It impacts our overall health in myriad ways. ”

Dr. Jeniimarie Febres

Families may naturally have deeply ingrained perceptions of each other. What’s the trick to getting them unstuck from old habits and seeing each other anew?

As the third party, we therapists have a powerful role to play. By asking questions, we can be a curious scientist with families. We can help them rewind the tape to witness themselves and their family members differently. Through us, they can become more open-minded and debunk some of their assumptions.

I often say I’m a communications coach: It’s about being able to harness your emotions to communicate effectively. It’s hard because loved ones can trigger us most deeply. The emotions that connect us with these people can also throw us off. How do we help people understand what they’re feeling so that they can speak in a way to be heard? On the other end, how can we help people be receptive listeners? Managing our emotions can help us become more effective communicators of our emotional world.

After working with families all day, can you turn off the family therapy part of your brain when you come home to your own family?

It’s impossible to turn it off. Being in this work is a way of thinking. I will share with patients, though, that I also struggle. There are times when I yell at my kids or when I’m not direct with my partner. The key is to balance those moments with more often trying to be constructive. 

What are your primary responsibilities in directing the Family Therapy Program at Brown University Health?

I oversee our clinical and research branches. I also sit at leadership tables in our department, advocating for the unique aspects of our work when different processes are being developed. A lot of therapeutic models are based on individuals, for example.

I have the luxury of working with a wonderful, talented team of people in the program. We have great conversations about clinical work and a meeting of minds around where we want our research to be headed. We also just appreciate what’s going on in each other’s personal lives. All of our meetings start with what’s “hot and trending,” what’s meaningful to share this week.

four people with their bicycles
Dr. Febres with her husband and friends at Save the Bay’s 4 Bridges Ride, a 26-mile charity bike ride, in 2017. 

How can your DPHB colleagues make referrals to your program?

Family therapy referrals should go through the Department of Adult Psychiatry and Behavioral Health’s Access Center at 401-606-0606. Patients are asked to call this number. If referrers would like to discuss the case prior to providing this number to patients, we ask that they reach out to Anita Curran or myself.

What do you do when you’re not working?

A lot of my time is consumed with playground-hunting. We’ll drive 20-30 minutes to find a great playground. There’s a pretty amazing one in Jamestown and another in Barrington that’s right on the bay. That’s a good one for the parents to sit and enjoy the scenery.

On vacation days, I’ll do a Google dive or look at Rhode Island Monthly magazine to see what’s going on locally that we want to do. Food-wise, Riverside Food Mart Sandwich Shop is a truly unexpected, special place. It’s Peruvian food made with love by a welcoming, older Peruvian woman in a family-owned convenience store. 

I’m also in a Zoom book club with some close girlfriends from all across the country. We lean towards relationship and parenting books – we’re all psychologists, so no surprise there. It’s a lovely way to relate to one another, actually. We could just sit and vent about how difficult it is to juggle kids and partners, and there’s that, but we also ground it in the ideas we’re reading about: “How does that work in your house?” or “This is just nonsense.” We keep it light.

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